Meditation
Easy as 1-2-3
The very word meditation conjures up many different images
to each of us, but generally it has the label that "you
have to empty your mind". Well I'm here to tell you that
that is just not true. Not only is it not true but it is
completely impossible. In order for us to empty our minds
we're going to have to go through a complete brainectomy.
Even the lowest types of creatures always have something on
their minds.
So I give you permission right here right now to allow
yourself to delve into this strange world that involves
meditation. Meditation practiced often and properly can
change every facet of your life. I have seen it in myself
and as a teacher of meditation techniques I have witnessed
the effects of changed lives in as little as 5 weeks of 1
day per week of meditation.
Webster's dictionary defines "Meditation" as: prolonged
awareness.
If you've ever driven home from work and didn't remember
all the details of how you got there, that's considered
prolonged awareness. Have you ever read a page in a book
and turned to the next page or pages and all of a sudden
you had to go back? Again that's prolonged awareness. Our
brains need a break from the mundane and so it comes to us
in many different forms but bouts of prolonged awareness do
come to each and every one of us daily. Because our
attention span is so short I would guess that we are having
an episode of some type of prolonged awareness each half
hour.
Meditation is just a specific system that gives us the
prolonged awareness that our brain and physical body
requires. The brain requires rest and we are not taught to
give our brains rest of any sort. We are taught to keep
pushing forward. We are taught to ignore fatigue and keep
moving. This all results in overload of the body and the
brain and generally puts us in the fight or flight mode at
all times.
Fight or flight is supposed to be used by our body only
when we are in danger or in an intense situation. Because
we are under so much duress each day and because we are
depriving our bodies of proper breath most people are under
fight or flight each waking moment. Our bodies and minds
are resilient and can heal itself rapidly but put it under
constant duress each day and each system begins to
malfunction.
One very obvious person who is under constant duress is the
President of the United States. When they take office and
when they leave maybe a mere 4 years later shows markedly
on their faces and their posture. There are visible and
apparent changes due to the amount of duress the person in
office endures. Imagine what toll is taken on each of our
bodies by the constant duress. Each day we suppress and
endure and allow our bodies to take abuse that we wouldn't
allow someone else to do to use. Duress manifests in the
body as highly toxic chemicals that the body must break
down and eliminate. As we put more duress on the body by
the way we eat and the way we live then the body will show
and feel worn.
Meditation is a safe and easy technique that allows your
body to release duress and get out of fight or flight. The
first time you mediate you will feel strange because you've
been in constant fight or flight most of your life.
The word meditation brings up quite a few feelings. Some of
those feelings include confusion and some of them include
fear. The unknown is definitely something we fear
particularly if we've heard stories and allowed the media
to fill our heads with doom and gloom. A simple definition
of meditation is "Prolonged Awareness".
Prolonged awareness is easy because we've all had
experience with that. We've been driving somewhere and
missed our exit or driving home and don't remember the
details of how we got home or reading a book and had to go
back several pages because we don't remember what we read.
These are all forms of prolonged awareness. Some may laugh
and say I was just spacing out or zoning. Well that is
actually a form of meditation. The brain was aware and
functioning and yet it took a rest from the mundane every
day task.
You may have heard that meditation can help the body. This
is true but where do you turn to get to learn to meditate?
Do you find a guru? Do you go to yoga class? Do you read a
book? All of those are possible but still the issue about
who, what, and where comes up. The other thing many people
ask "Do I have to chant?". No you don't have to chant. One
of the biggest issues with wanting and trying to meditate
is getting the mind to quiet down. It's quite a challenge
with hectic lifestyles we lead to get our minds to be
empty. Whoa hold on, we don't actually need to empty our
minds.
Now that you're thoroughly confused let's step back and
take a look at the who, what, where to find meditation. The
first thing you want to do is be open to the idea. The
right class or person will come into our life if we are
just open. The second thing is to ensure that you are
comfortable with the person that will be teaching you or
who will be your guide through meditation. The next thing
is you need to get some basics under your belt.
Just because you aren't emptying your mind or you feel
uncomfortable doesn't mean that you aren't having some
success. Our bodies are craving the inner calm but you'll
need to learn how to bring some of that inner calm in to
your body just like you learned how to ride a bike. There
are steps and there are bumps along the way. Perseverance
is key to succeeding.
Meditation can change the physiology of your body allowing
it to heal itself and releasing old anger and issues. I
have had many students in my meditation class tell stories
of illnesses that are now gone just because they are
meditating regularly. Some students have told of not having
anger issues any more and still other tell of a sense of
self they had never felt. Just because the word may give
you concern don't let the opportunity to learn to meditate
pass you by because you may be passing up the chance to
reward yourself with good health, happiness, and
interacting with some wonderful new friends.
Breath
This is one of the most talked about yet least understood
elements of successful meditation. Most people have the
perception that because they are alive that breath is no
big deal. It is a big deal it is not only the key to our
life, our health and our ability to overcome nearly any
physical issue.
The first thing that you need to learn how to do before you
even try meditating is proper breathing technique. This is
if you have the desire to see the benefits of meditation
and want to succeed on a long term basis.
The majority of the American population deprives themselves
of breath. We only use about 10-20% of the capacity of our
lungs with our breathing paternd today. Because our lungs
are one of the largest purifiers of toxins that come in to
the body the fact that we use such a small portion is
alarming.
As you watch a child with endless energy you see total
abandon when they are at play. They are not concerned about
all the things that we are concerned about and they also
continue to breath properly until about 5 years of age.
What
do I do about all the chatter going on in my head?
One
of the first things that happens when you sit down and try
to get quiet is that your brain volume seems to get turned
up to very loud. Sometimes just turning off the television
or radio makes this happen. We are just not used to sitting
in a quiet room without some type of media turned on. Our
brains are stuck in the high volume position and the low
volume button hasn't been used in such a long while that
it's need some oil.
With technology in our faces each day and with the chatter
of our family, friends, and co-workers we don't have the
opportunity to hear quiet. It is just too easy to turn
ourselves off and turn on music or television for
entertainment. But if we try actually our best
entertainment will come from ourselves and the quiet that
we give our body and brain.
Imagine that you have a Hummer car and never use any of the
gadgets it's just like driving an economy car without the
economy. This is the same with all the we see and hear each
day. We are bombarded with new information each day and
things are speeding up all the time. By allowing our minds
and bodies to assimilate what we have already input we
become more efficient. Our bodies become more efficient at
healing and our minds become more efficient at processing.
All of a sudden we have more things going on and are able
to cope with each of them more effectively and this all
came about because we learned how to get quiet.
In one of my meditation classes an older gentleman who had
tried many times to meditate and had some success
throughout the years spoke up. He blurted out how do I get
rid of the "Monkey Mind"? That is the precise phrase that
describes what goes one each time we try to sit down and
get quiet or try to meditate.
The point isn't to make the mind quiet because that will
always be difficult. If we just allow the thoughts to drift
by without dwelling on them then we have success. By
dwelling on them then we are telling the mind "Ok go ahead
and solve that problem". Our minds are amazing in that it
will do whatever you focus on. If you focus on not thinking
about a pink elephant then all you think about is pink
elephants. If you focus on breath you think about breathing
properly. Once you're in a pattern of breathing properly
then the ease of allowing thoughts to drift by becomes
easier.
One of the easiest ways to get rid of monkey mind and get
straight to meditating is to have someone be there with you
each time as your guide. That might seem difficult but
there are many mediation CD's out there that will be your
guide. Having someone teach you is a great way to begin
meditation. Also participating in a group that meditates
once a week is also great. The challenge is which one do
you pick. I have included a meditation on the opposite page
that is easily done on your own but you first must learn
the words. You can go to
www.meditationeasyas123.com and sign
up for a series of guided meditations that you can do in
your own home. I have also included information on groups
where you can get together to meditate frequently.
Chanting
Is
chanting required to meditate? No it is not. Is it the only
way I'm going to achieve quiet? No, but it may help.
Do
I have to
chant? No you don't have to chant. The point of chanting is
that it brings a particular vibration to the person
meditating.
I bet you think you have never chanted anything in your
life. Well I'm here to tell you that each one of chants
something each day. Whether it's telling our children or
husband to pick up their clothes or whether we're at a
sports event we all chant. If we were ever in school and
watched someone get into a fight many of the kids will be
chanting. We not only chant out loud but we chant in the
silence of our thoughts. Our silent chants could be about
money and wishing we had more or could be about how tired
we feel. Whatever it is that is repetitive would be
considered chanting.
Again just using the word "Chanting" conjures up all these
thoughts about strange rituals. Most people will associate
the word with evil.
Demystifying
Meditation
I've
heard about Transcendental Meditation and that they give
you a word that is supposed to be specific to me, will that
help me meditate? It may
but there are other techniques that will get you and keep
you balanced. I've also heard that some people who got
their word felt like it didn't work for them and so they
never meditated again. Will that happen to me? If a
meditation technique does not work for you then you
shouldn't use that one but don't let that discourage you so
that you don't meditate. There are many many meditation
techniques available and just like finding the right pair
of slacks that fit and are the color you want you must find
the one that works for you. Remember that meditation is not
just a one time fix. Meditation is a prescription that is
free that will benefit you for the rest of your life.
I
can't find the time to meditate, what should I do?
If you
want to make an impact on your life and improve your health
you will find the time. Remember the old saying that if you
give something to someone who is busy it will get done
quickly and well and if you give that same thing to someone
who has a lot of time on their hands it never seems to get
done.
What
is the best time of day for meditation? I've heard that in
the morning is the only time you should
meditate.
There is benefit to meditating first thing in the morning.
If you don't have time in the morning but you have time in
midday or later in the evening then you should do it then.
The point of meditation is today's environment is not about
adhering to steadfast rules but it is about reaping the
benefit of what meditation does for you mentally,
physically, and emotionally.
Sheevaun
Moran has been facilitating miracles for the past 14 years
with over 7,000 clients. The results are profound and the
techniques are truly miraculous. She teaches people to
release patterns and downward spiraling thoughts and
energies, that result in miraculous changes in their lives.
Sheevaun, an author of 2 books, has taught classes
throughout the world so people can achieve profound health,
wealth, and spirituality.
You can reach Sheevaun at
sheevaun@EnergeticSolutions.net
P.O. Box 808 Huntington Beach, Ca 714.374.1988